10 dating tips for men

23 Feb

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She is drawn to you for the same reason so many men chase younger women: she is attracted by your youthful enthusiasm. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly.

Let’s keep that to ourselves until you land the third date. If you want to be irresistible to men, you need to reinforce this idea that there’s nothing wrong with playing sports and getting your hands dirty. Men also have things they want to do, maybe watch a hockey game or hang out with their friends alone. But showing him that you go out without him and do things on your own is a huge turn on. Eye contact is a great way to use nonverbal communication. [Read: The all-in woman’s guide to making eye contact with men] #9 Hygiene. If you’re not big on the whole bathing routine, that’s fine, I get it. I mean, come on, you want a guy who smells good, right? Congratulations, but it’s time for you to donate that. This isn’t about upstaging other women, showing pride in your appearance shows you value yourself. Your energy also increases when you’re discussing topics that interest you.

Mystery keeps men wanting to find out more about you, making you irresistible. Men love a girl who can hold their own ground and play rough. This doesn’t mean you have to ditch playing baseball or drinking beer, you can do all that, but don’t be afraid to also tap into your feminine side. [Read: How to be a strong independent woman that men love] #6 Be relaxed. Try not to laugh until you pee your pants—it’s happened to me. It also makes the person feel important and singled out *in a good way*. Let’s aim for a shower once a day and possibly a laundry cycle once a week—baby steps. [Read: 13 physical attraction tips to look way hotter] #12 Cut the negative Nancy attitude. Are there any men in a fifty-mile radius around you? And unless hygiene isn’t your thing, it’s probably because your energy is bringing people down. People want to be around people who make them feel good. If you put everything on a silver platter, sure it looks nice, but they already know they have that as an option. This is what engages men into a further conversation and possibly a date.

Sure, this girl exists, but for the rest of us, making ourselves irresistible to men needs a little more elbow grease and a couple years of making fashion faux pas before getting it right.

Trust me, I was chubby until I was 18 years old and wore skater shoes, I know the struggle.