Dating on and off meaning he is hot and cold dating

17 Mar

If I find a person physically or otherwise attractive, but they seem stupid, I lose all attraction.If someone is not so physically or otherwise attractive, but they seem smart, there's a good chance I'm turned on.

A date that came with free dinner/drinks was great but if I learned nothing noteworthy from him, I would feel like I’m cutting myself short if I spent more time getting to know this person.They will initiate, you will see their enthusiasm and above all, they will listen to what you have to say.Notice how they message as well, if they give you emoji, one word, no punctuation answers versus if they reply in full and grammatically correct sentences.So I find myself wasting a lot of time and energy dating people who appear intelligent at first but really just memorized a couple of buzzwords or headlines.Most people avoid conflict with new people, and tend not to engage in anything beyond small talk until they can feel out the audience. Woman C: Well I don’t have a dating life, so I can’t help you there. Man A: I find myself normally sticking to a small roster of hookups, because in general it's pretty hard for me to meet eligible women with reciprocal interest that tick all the necessary boxes, TBH. Man C: I guess it makes it easier to know what you want. Throw the facts right back at me, point out the hole in my argument.