Dating and not having sex

09 Jul

For me, two things happened once I had sex with a girl.As I look back on it, I can say that they happened literally every time, although I was unaware of these dynamics at the time.If you have a girlfriend now and feel that way, think of how much stronger that feeling will be with your wife someday. That's what I mean by "sex killed my best relationships." People can relate on many different levels -- emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually.But when my girlfriend and I started relating mostly physically, it short-circuited the other parts of our relationship.

Mainly because when I was in college, sex was my "god." As a male, it's what I thought about morning, noon and night. If you have, you should stop and consider, "Why is that?

I've seen this happen with countless relationships, not just others of my own, but those of many other people.

And I think there's a reason for this, which I'll explain next.

But nobody talks about this kind of thing in public.

And the movie and TV portrayals of couples having sex before marriage never present it either.